Concerts with a stoma

I can remember going to a concert with my boyfriend and missing the majority of it because I couldn’t get off the toilet and I felt so guilty.

A few months later I underwent stoma surgery and was due to attend a concert in three weeks, I was so nervous and told myself I wouldn’t be able to go, there would be too many people, and my bag would be certain to leak and the queues for the toilet would be too long. It came to the day of the concert and I decided to go and I had a great time!

Since having my stoma I have attended more concerts than ever before and I can safely say that I enjoy them so much more now.

I always carry spare supplies with me just in case, these include a fresh bag, dry wipes, 3-in-1 adhesive remover spray, and an eakin freeseal® to help prevent leaks.

When I arrive at the concert I’ll navigate the venue to work out where the nearest toilets are. I make sure to drink plenty, stay hydrated, and be mindful of what I eat and drink on the day.

I love attending concerts and I’m so glad that my stoma hasn’t affected that, if anything it’s made the experience so much better! I’ve already been to a few concerts this year and I’m attending another next month!

Ayesha
@ayeshaduffy